BaZi Relationship Comparison Worksheet

The reference score comes from the fixed traditional relations listed on this page. It is not trained on relationship outcomes, has not been tested against real relationship data, and must not be read as a probability of compatibility, marriage, separation, or safety.

The calculation begins at 70, applies only the Day Master and year-pillar relations below, and displays a result from 50 to 95. Names, gender, relationship stage, income, appearance, and private behavior do not change the score.

These four values summarize only the traditional relations listed here. They do not measure communication, collaboration, money behavior, caregiving, fertility, or relationship quality. Every value remains within the stated range after the listed additions and deductions.

The labels organize discussion only. Real behavior, consent, safety, values, responsibilities, financial records, and conflict repair take priority over every reference score.

The calculation uses the two visible Day Master elements, selected year-stem and year-branch lookup pairs, visible element-count spreads, and the two month branches. It does not calculate Ten Gods relationship roles, spouse palaces, attachment style, intent, consent, safety, fertility, or future timing.

When either birth time is unknown, the hour pillar is omitted. The page keeps that uncertainty visible, but even complete birth details cannot turn a traditional chart comparison into a measurement of relationship quality.

Use the four labels only to organize a conversation, then answer them without relying on the chart.

Select one discussion question and one observable agreement. Record the starting problem, both people's wording, the action, consent, review date, supporting evidence, and counterevidence. Do not ask one partner to accept a chart label as a fact about them.

After 30 days, mark the agreement keep, revise, or stop. A change in real communication does not prove the reference score accurate; it only shows whether the agreed action helped during that period.

Do not use a reference score to decide whether someone is trustworthy, whether to marry or separate, whether to have children, or whether unsafe behavior should be tolerated. Enter another person's birth details only with permission.

Relationship safety, legal rights, housing, immigration, money, mental health, and medical decisions require direct evidence and qualified support from the relevant domain. A second chart calculation cannot resolve those issues.